Now with what you posted over there what is this about you and Wife spending Sundays together, I don't get your sitch, please tell more or a quick run down
Now, what I meant was, Tambo struck a cord with me when he described the foot rubbing and everything because my WS likes that (she will stick her feet out sometimes, almost like a cat, as if she expects the rub). I enjoy doing it because she likes it, but what I really meant by not stopping there is this is our prelude to sex or more often postlude. While we are on the subject, after the bomb dropped, my WS said she was surprised at how sexual I found her, after the initial earthshaking shock. She said she would find it very hard to forgive me if the roles were reversed. Maybe I am too easy to please, I don't know. But after the initial devastation, our sex life is back to what it has been, pretty much, except I find it hard to stay hard, so to speak (?!) for long periods of time, which I/we attribute to age (we are both 58). So we work around that. Anyway here is another link about that:
So I wasn't trying to make any big deal about anything. I just thought it struck a cord with me. Anyway, I thought the story about the man and his wife was kind of funny, with my unique warped sense of humor.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.
