Instead of looking to where I want us to be and seeing that we're not there, or how far we need to go (and could we ever maintain that?!) and getting discouraged I'm truly going to try to be H's friend and see if me changing helps him to change.
Okay, my eyes were getting moist by this point, now CUT THAT OUT!
Sheila, you bestride your sitch like a colossus of yore.
I have a close friend who is angry most of the time with her H.. unreasonably angry,
All this time I thought Steff was leaving on weekends to be with Om, but she was obviously heading south to hang out with you! Next time you see her, would you tell her I'd like my Erasure CD back?
Stop WaitingFeel EverythingLove AchinglyGive ImpeccablyLet Go