So, do you feel like you're making any progress at getting comfortable with groundlessness? I kind of am, and in a weird way it's almost a relief. Thinking that I don't have to force a situation into some kind of resolution. I can be okay, at least for awhile, out here in limbo.
I planned to say a good deal more but it's getting late for me, so I'll make sure to come around again tomorrow.
Meantime, I had just one sort of odd thing to throw out there for you. Matt really seems like a solid person. I hope you're as proud of yourself, and even H, as you are of him. But he seems to be pretty serious about his GF. You and I both married pretty young, and I've really been thinking that getting married before having lived on your own for awhile is a very dangerous proposition, unless both partners are just fantastically grounded people. Who really understand the work involved in an R, and don't just think R's work because they're "so in love". Has that ever crossed your mind? Have you ever talked about it with him, or is it way too early in the game for that?
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