Becca, Men are just as sensitive, if not more than women, about certain feelings and actions. Most of the men I've talked with are extremely sensitive when it comes to any sexual dysfunction. Just like women, men can have problems engaging if there is an "elephant" of emotions in the room.
I've found that it's the almost subconcious things that work the best. The gentle touch on the elbow, the gentle smile. Direct eye contact. Flirting. You know, the direct eye contact and then looking away with a smile. The swish of the hair. Small signals that reach the lizard brain of most men but aren't overtly sexual in nature.
It's above me to suggest what works best for you, but these are the things that most of the men I've spoken with mention when they talk about the women they are attracted to.
