What do I do? Act like we haven't had the convos, but be loving towards him? Give him a nice back rub and love on him, and tell him that I'm sorry he has been feeling bad the last week, but he'll be back to his old self soon and I can't wait to ML to him when he is? What is the simplest solution to stop the cycle and both of us come out of it feeling good about our R, loved and desired?
Piglet, I've been reading your thread for awhile and I think you've hit the nail on the head. You've found the answer yourself and that this is probably the best way to get past it. Perhaps if, as you yourself suggest, you act "as if" and be gentle and loving it will move things forward. It certainly won't hurt!
