OW 38 -->currently out of picture 'cause her H found out
So H is hardly ever around...I have been DBing...and starting to be alot more happy...going out with friends etc...new job lined up with more pay (which H doesn't know about)...and he comes home after being gone all weekend and accuses me of screwing someone else 'cause I have been going out with friends.
So...DBing has caused him to slightly notice me...but now he hates me thinking I am sleeping around like him...UGH...so I lose again...
He has told me to make a choice...then leaves...so he calls...and I ask what choice is there to choose from? H says I had best make my choice VERY soon...so I ask again...choose between what? H says choose between what I am going to do...??!! So I say what? Move out? Work on the marriage? What? Are you asking me to move out? H says "well no" but you need to choose...so again, I repeat the question...and he says obviously I am happy & he isn't...so I need to choose what I am going to do. UGH...repetitive... I tell him, you never called all weekend to see if we were dead or alive...he says, you never called me either...I told him, you said you didn't want me to call that you needed your space & I respected that...didn't I? He says yes. So I say...you wanted me to go out & make friends, I did...you wanted me to be happy...I am...you wanted your space & freedom and you have it...so what is there to choose from? I just don't get it... I think he wants me to be the one to walk...and in all honesty...I am very close to it cause he hasn't shown me a sign of any kind he cares...UGH... Anyone got some input on what the heck he is thinking/saying/asking me to choose?? Any advice?????
