RE M&K's dad
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Somehow I have been able to associate doughnuts with the crappy feeling I get after eating them


I don't have too many problems with really sweet or oil/grease laden foods. I wish that carried over to things like pasta and potatoes.

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"You don't need me for that."

Technally, you don't need her for much else either, but it is more soothing to have her involved with you. Sex is sex, but LM requires the other person to be there in body and spirit. The giving and getting makes it so much better. Being/acting sexy myself hakes the encounter so much better. Can't act sexy when no one else is watching or reacting with me. (technically I can act w/o someone else there, but it's not much fun).

When will some women see/understand that and go along with the program?

I bought some "AstroGlide" personal lubricant at WalMart, hoping to use it with BB. She was resistant, so after a week to 10 days, I used it by myself. Not bad but not the real thing. It helped me get through a couple "my don't give a dam just busted" attitude.
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I know she responds and I know she likes it at the time. How do I know? Because if she were faking she would do a more convincing job.

Sounds logical but don't count on it. Some people are good actors.

I read one woman's post on another forum, where she said she likes sex but not with her H. I have seen several TV programs where women say the have (about 100% at some time in their life) faked/acted the way they thought their partner expected to act at the time so they did not dissapoint the guy. Most of the women said sometimes the feelings for them don't take hold.

What I liked hearing from the women on the TV program was O's are wounderfull but just being together and being able to give and get love was very good. Ith EC was about or more important than the O.

One of BB women friends said her H and she thought, men in general, would not know if the woman was faking or real. She also said her H and most men would not know if a woman is having a "A" if she just took care of the H and family like she normally does and is a gooooooood actor. She said the guilt factor would be the difficult thing to supress. (SAHM and H traveled most of the week)

Her point also included, most men work too much or have outside activities and tend to not pick up on the W's moods.

Anyway, acting or not, I really like some feedback in bed. ML is so individual and can vary over time. We get a pay check as feedback for working, grades for school/college work, thank-you's for cards or presents we give, why not some feedback when ML?

Lou