I guess that is OK. For me sounds, breathing, touches are all feedback signals. They let me know what is working or not working. How many people actually ask for or tell their partner what they want or feels good. What works one day, might not work the next.
I am not quiet but not overly loud. I would suspect most women ( longterm partner situation) would know my mental and excitement state. Of course I can get worked up just being with BB when she does little.
I think HD men need LD women to show more physical clues, emotion, and ??? We don't want to ask if we are doing it right. Just speeking from my situation so I really don't know if my post applies to most HDH/LDW situations.
I know when the kids were at home and in the next room, BB and I had to be quiet. I suspect that is also the situation in your house for now.
Anyway, for me, making noises makes it better. I don't have to hold my emotions is so much. I make faces too BTW.
Quote: Wish I could say the same for my bed!
So, your bed gets excited? Just joking.
We had one of those squeeky beds and I was explaining to the landlod, 70 year old male(first apartment furnished) what I did to fix it. He just grinned and said OK. I was just letting him know I modified his furniture a little.
Just joking. 