My wife has very intense and pleasurable orgasams, sometimes I even get her twice. But she also says if she never had sex again she would be ok with that. She NEVER goes looking for sex, EVER. I have gone for months without initiating and NOTHING, she does not desire sex. So how can you have such pleasure and yet NEVER go looking for it?
Even worse, is why do the LD spouses not want to give pleasure to their HD spouse? The whole purpose of sex is to GIVE love not necessarily receive it. The whole perspective that my LD wife has on sex is completely illogical to me. To intentionally NOT give your spouse pleasure just makes no sense!