Well, I don't want another O IMMEDIATELY AFTER I have one. Just like you don't want another double chocolate fudge brownie IMMEDIATELY AFTER you eat one. But the next day, you remember that there's a tupperware container of brownies in the kitchen and you can't stop thinking about them. You remember how good they tasted and pretty soon you're headed for the kitchen.
Chrissy, do you ever look at O's this way?
It occurred to me that maybe LD people do not have really powerful O's. I have really long powerful spectacular O's due to years and years of practice. Maybe to some people, an O is nice but nothing to write home about.
Just like wine connoisseurs can taste all the subtleties in a glass of wine, but I just don't like wine and wouldn't be interested in learning to like it. Just not my cup of tea, as it were.
That stuff about which happens first, desire, arousal, etc. was from a book called "Reclaiming Your Sexual Desire."
