One thing I have learned for fact on this BB is how hard our R can be no matter what side of the fence we are on.
I have also come to believe though I do not agree with the fact that the LD controls the R totally on the sexual front. They do control the R on the improving side. And yes sometimes that is by simply being willing to have sex more often then they desire to. Or to be open to compromise would be a better way to put it.
I know you particapated in the post I was talking about. Alot of what came of it made sense to me but took awhile to sink in to figuring out why/what would cause someone to not crave orgasms it took the knowledge of what had been said and paying attention to what was going on with myself durring sex to figure out what I stated above. Though those on the BB who do not have spouses that will allow themselves to get to the stimulated point are still screwed no matter if my reasoning holds any water.
