Chrissy, Good stuff! I was thinking about my LDH just now and you just answered one of my questions. That ol' pesky stimulation-then-desire thing. I forget about that *quite* often, as unfair as it is to H. I still look for desire from him before stimulation. I'll never learn, aghhhh. When I do stimulate him, it's there in droves.
Sounds like an easy solution but trust me, it's no easier for an HD person to get past than it is for the LD person to just do it, or something like that.
