Heaven knows I've had to learn how to be practical, for ...

LOL. You poor poor woman.
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I was cooking in a cast iron kettle over a wood fire, hand washing my family's clothes, doing mending and chopping firewood, I seriously doubt I'd have time to bitch about the lackanookie....



Yeah right. Who are you trying to fool. Anyways my comment that inspired this was not directed at you, (funny that you answered it though) but other SAHM who are not so invested as you obviously are.

Your H has this same line of thinking? HUH, isnt that interesting...


Balto, I think the love affair is a great idea, but once again like Mrs. Nop pointed out earlier you didnt give any specifics or concrete things that you would like to happen.

I get the feeling that you are in a standoff with your wife, you want her to understand you more, and she probably wants the same. Can you tell us anymore about your R, give us some background, and specific convos.