OOh I believe it is achievable, the question is, or should be, is it sustainable?

We have, I hope, had memorable times with our SO/H. Can they be repeated with any regularity? Or, have they relegated themselves into our dreams and longinglinesses(hehe, new word).

Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay