Quote: The "check engine" light came on in her car, which I took care of-it was a very minor fault that got stored in the car's computer memory, and that is what upped her interest in a new car.
I should add I heard all kinds of reasons for getting a new car when I worked fot the dealership so BB concern about the "check engine" light comming on was a BTDT event. I am not buying it.
"Intimate Communications" by David Deida just arrived. I glanced at it and it looks like it is mainly geared to couples willing to advance their sexual experiences. I hope it has information for people in a HD/LD-ND relationship so there is a chance at more EC and sex/ML beyond theory. I see something similar to blackfoots theories in there too.
Re cobra
Quote: In my opinion she should have a minimum amount of respect toward me. The fact that she doesn’t means she controls the disputes. If I never cross the line, then she will always “win.” If it never bothers her that she does this, then what does that say about the level of civility? How do you deal with this, other than leave?
Stopping her when the line is crossed by leaving the room and refusing to listen.
Do like HairDog and say you are going home if something happens in the car.
I had to resort to driving away from a resturant parking lot because BB kept saying there won't be any place to sit to eat when we went out to eat. It took a couple of trips back home and now I dont hear "there won't be any place to sit." I guess BB never heard of a wait line. Anyway, BB tried to make it my responsability seats were available the minuet we arrived. I am not playing that game. Peanutbutter and jelly sandwitches are better than complaints from her. Modify for your use.
