Quote: I almost said something like she could have her condo and her pets that she dotesd oves so much and not have to put up with my precieved "controling" behavior
I did not say this to BB, just thought about. Just brought this up to make sure no one thought I actually went through with it.
Re Lil
Quote: I would see these new reactions of yours not so much as "calling her bluff," as simply getting onto a different road.
Lil, I am not calling her bluff or what ever it is . I agree with cobra that she is not intentioally trying to make things hard on me or her. It is just something she believes is right according to her way of thinking.
Quote: I would think there would be an element of relief on your part not to feel you have to explain yourself or defend yourself on stuff anymore (at least for now).
I wished it were that way. I just feel more detached and care a little less each week about the outcome. Sad in a way, but maybe that is what it will take for one of us to make the next move.
Quote: I added the comment about missing him to sort of slip that thought in under her radar while she was in a vulnerable state
Anything wrong with asayint "you might miss me more than the problems with the house and inventory should something cause me not to come back?" (Open discussion type of thing)
Re Chrissy
Quote: Being in a different room for a long period of time seems to decrease the chances of sex.
BTDT. You are right. When I am not sleeping with her, the dogs become more important, and I become less important.
RE Blackfoot
Quote: Oh yes I am a bad husband and bad for you. I tend to forget things I dont believe sometimes....especially since I know alternative well. But that has nothing to do with it. Uh huh.........However that IS her perception of me,
Are you saying SO's re write history? Naw, you don't say. Mine does all of the time.
Quote: I agree with you about the anxiety attack. again its not malicious or intentional but it is a test. you pass with strength and confidance and redirecting/moving on to a positive perception
Test? That is a big 10-4 good buddy. A year ago I never saw it that way, now I do.
. I agree with cobra that she is not intentioally trying to make things hard on me or her. It is just something she believes is right according to her way of thinking.
