Lou,

It seems you are setting good firm boundries for BB. I would not think you will see immediate results but I think in the long run if you stick to it and she sees hey he really is done with this behavoir of mine. She may come around some.

The sleeping in a different room thing I don't know that can be tricky. I know alot of folks that sleep together into old age. But I don't know what goes on in that bed. But I know a few that sleep seperate and I know what is not going on in there relationship. Sex none at all.
Being in a different room for a long period of time seems to decrease the chances of sex. I base that on a very limited knowledge though. We are talking 4 or 5 couples I know that sleep seperate.

Why the hold up in your vacation. Can't wait for you to come back and post about all the excitting things and places! You are going to make me jealous