I had my/our company over for dinner, which I cooked last evening, and all had a good time. (DBing application)= I can function (cooking) with or without BB. Meals don't have to be complicated.
(((Side bar-I even joked I was serving Spaghetti-O's and champaign in paper cups. I asked if they wanted their Spaghetti-O's cold, heated in the micro-wave-oven, or on the stove top. Anyone who asked to have theirs heated I made a joke about being high maintenance.))) I can have a good time with or without BB. People are interested in what I do and I am interested in what they do.
Later BB rubbed my back without me asking and put her arm around me .
About 3AM she started having a panic attack. I asked he what it was about and she said what if yiou get in an accident on your vacation. What am I going to do with the house and all of your things?
i said it would be easy. Call a friend that has a similar business and let him take what he wants, then give or throw the rest away, sell the house and buy your condo. End of conversation.
This is what happpens. BB does not like something I am doing, creates situations where things go wrong that cause her potential problems, feels she can't cope, wants pre-accident/death/?????? potential problems solved before I leave/do something.
I said what I intended to do before I left for vacation before she brought up this latest round of questions and left it at that.
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