Sorry to hear that you're still struggling , Lou. I do heartily endorse that vacation. When does it start???

I also back up LP's encouragement to avoid getting into it with BB. Cheeseless tunnels. Keep practicing saying, "Oh." Or similar phrases. Make them your mantra.

Wishing you some meditative peace...


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012