Quote: Its good to look at them as 'tests' Lou, but understand that they are not maliciously plotted, or consciously concieved.
Boy, they sure used to feel nothing like a test. They are staring to now and I don't take them as seriously. The not maliciously ploted thing takes some getting used to. They felt like do or die events in the past.
Quote: because she cares about you, and SOOOO much so that she wants you to have a new car!.
It still can snow, I still can get robbed? and I still might be gone for 2 months (reality 3 weeks) even with a new car. That was causing me some logic problems. BB loves to throw money at problems. That is the "Hospital's MO." The more they spent (non-profit org.) the happier everyone was. Why not it was not their money anyway.
Quote: I love it so much. Isn't it fun?
I would rather deal with statistical possabilities and logic (semi Mr Spock) than this emotional rollercoaster. But hay, this is what I have and I will eventually learn to deal with the situation the best I can and not let it upset me so much.
Quote: It makes the R vibrate, you are in tune with her, she knows it, is thrown off balance a bit yet loves it, and humor is good for all.
(is thrown off balance a bit yet loves it) more like she has to work at the R and people who work at something appreciate the fruits of their labor more than someone who is just given the fruits.
Quote: voila the attraction was dialied up a little bit.
Yes, it seems so.
Quote: The tight rope act is to not go overboard with and be controlling in return.
That is one reason I post some things that seem to me, like they are trivial. I don't want to go overboard and if I did, I suppose someone would point it out to me.