Sounds like BB tried to bully you into doing your vacation her way. And when you did not cave her true reasons came out. She was concerned for your saftey. That is a good sign. In the past when she has been concerned about your health she seemed more interested in having sex. Maybe saftey issues will play out the same.
I can see Lou's post in the morning BB out of fear for my saftey decided we should have rampant sex. So as of today no more computer repairs I am now taking up professional sky diving