"I think it can be a form of continued powerlessness to think that progress may be contingent on confronting dad.
I don't see it as wrong or wrong-headed. I just hestitate for it to be placed in a position of importance without which Glob is hindered. Just my personal opinion."
I really see your point strongly here MrsNOP. I think I do need to have a plan that primarily involves just me, but if I can take advantage of an interaction with my father, do it if it will help. KWIM? If the interaction with dad doesn't go well, or doesn't happen, I need to make sure it doesn't sink the overall plan.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"