I didn’t mean to imply that you said anything inappropriate about your wife at all. I think you have tried to be very fair in your description of her. What I meant is that you don’t know if she will want her history on public display, even if it is anonymous. And communicating one on one with LFL is perfectly fine too, for a secure couple with healthy boundaries. You are not in that situation so I was concerned that your wife could see the emailing as another betrayal (I still believe she wants you to have that emotional connection with you, not someone else). If she found out about this, then she could justify a pattern of behavior in her mind, and you could have dug yourself a hole too deep to climb out of.
