Globe,

Sorry about the pumpkin hi jack! All in the spirit of Halloween

Sometimes it is fun to talk about other things then our problems. Your and LFL banter has been a nice break. I don't think anyone here minds reading it. We all banter back in forth at times about non relationship issues.

I do not think anyone here was trying to offend either of you with there advice of how posting outside of the forum may side track you from your reasons to be here. And put one or both of you in a bad place in the future if your S came across the more person style of discussions via email...ie One on One vs open forum. Others here have done that very thing and it has turned into EA's and blown up in there faces and made there sitch worse. They no longer have the cyber family to speak since there S requested they no longer come to this website. I don't think anyone here wants to se either of you in that position.

I hope LFL realizes this and comes back and joins us. Her insight and support has helped many here.

Hope your trip went well!

Again sorry for painting pumpkins on your thread

Chrissy