LfL, there was no ruckus! Why would you say that? And please don't take your marbles and go home. There's no need for that. Ok, so you're a bit embarrassed... all of us here are dealing with touchy personal issues. Our hot buttons are on the outside for all to see. That's part of the benefit of this board.

But you are completely anonymous, as is everyone here, so we can be honest in a way that is practically impossible IRL. Stick around... if you feel you need to cool it for a few days, then do so, but don't go away. Blackfoot was going to bolt, too, but he changed his mind. A few times I've gotten my feelings hurt, or got into a tug-of-war with someone and vowed never to return. But this is a unique community, and your contribution to it is and has been unique and irreplaceable. So is globule's.

The thing I learned in the Undefended Love workshop is that when things heat up, my first line of defense is "I'm Outta Here!" You remind me so much of ME! That's one of the things I like about you.