"That part is good. But, I sometimes feel too detached, you know what I mean?" Unfortunately I do. I am really beginning to feel detached from her, and I don't want that. I know the MC session is not going to be the holy grail, but it can't come too soon. I think if I have to wait much longer to at least start airing some of this stuff out, I'll either go crazy or just completely shut off.
"It's hard to find a happy medium between too enmeshed and too detached." You are too good at succinctly describing exactly how I feel. Should I go talk to her or just leave her alone? Should I tell her how I feel or just bottle it up? Should I show affection or will she just think I am smothering her? Should I say nice things to her or is that just being to pushy?
"That fact of the matter is, I feel like would rather open up to you than have to deal with all of these feelings with my H." I echo the feeling that it is nice to open up to you. I feel comfortable talking to you about these things. One difference between us (OH NO!!!) is that I want to deal with this issues head-on and start fixing them, but the conventional wisdom is that I need to just back off.
"Sincerely, thanks for being there..here..wherever" Your welcome, and thanks in return. I probably wouldn't mind being wherever you are, but you'd hate it out here. Remember, no coffee shops.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
