Man I SOOO tried to be happy and cheerful when I went home. I guess I shouldn't expect 180s to be easy or to happen right away. Forgot to comment on this. I know that feeling of coming home in a good mood and it turns to sh*t in about 5 minutes. It sucks! As for the 180's, I'm not really one to give advice here. You have received some great advice already on this topic, especially related to the "groping incident". Lay low for a while. Make her wonder. Being predictable is never the right answer. How are things going today? Any better?