"When my H and I have had no contact and he immediately makes contact in a sexual nature. It is a automatic turn off for me. It is not loving in nature it is pure he wants sex in my mind. I feel used."
Hmmm, it was not my intention for it to be taken as expressing my desire for sex, as we both know we are not going to have sex anytime soon. I guess I thought in my whacked out brain that she might actually be flattered that I find her hot and was willing to express it openly with absolutely no reservation. I can see how she would misunderstand my intent though.
"And her response yes you will. Is true you will. My H says this often also. Two days later he is at it again. And BF says it is us woman that say something today but don't mean it tomorrow!" That settles it! I am NOT doing that again (the "move" I made on her this morning)! I will not be made a fool of.
"I hope your wifes stomach is located in a normal spot. I seem to be a freak of nature who's stomach seems to reside right along there pelvic line. Or is it my H just does not know anatomy well" LOL!!! Now that's funny. Oh, I thought that was your stomach. LOL! I guess in the right context it could be a good move. I will say that I have NEVER come up and grabbed her breasts or private areas as a first move. Maybe that's partly the wuss in me, but I know she would not like that. I don't touch those areas until we are well along the way toward a sexual encounter.
Thanks for your perspectives. It helps me understand my W's reaction better.
"Hope your day gets better!" I't didn't, and the night before sucked too (probably had something to do with why I went after her this morning), but that is a different story. The past two Friday nights have been real bummers. I used to like Friday's.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
