blackfoot would probably spend the whole time kicking my a$$ Well, at least there would be some passion in that room Lol Do women like the idea of men fighting over them? Of course Globule. Thus, my fantasy. You know, the W has never expressed jealousy toward me and I probably have never expressed it to her. Is it possible we were too comfortable and felt too safe with each other. Safe is a good thing in general, but it doesn't always inspire passion Yes. My H and I are the same way. I've talked about this on another thread. All emotions can be viewed on a spectrum from healthy to unhealthy. Even traits we consider inherently good, like trust. TOO much trust in a M can lead to laziness, lack of passion, lack of EC. If we always assume our mates will stay with us no matter what, we have nothing to really MOTIVATE us anymore in the R. Passion keeps us engaged in the R. Of course OW also went on and on sometimes about how one of the things she really liked about me was that she felt safe with me because she knew I wouldn't try to cross THE boundary I can see that. The line was set and therefore you felt COMFORTABLE with each other to really open up, share, form EC, etc. It was intense R, some people would say nothing more than a friendship since you never crossed the line but I think we know that is bs. You can have feelings for someone that are beyond "friendly" even though their was never any sexual contact. That's why love, passion, EC is about the MIND not the body. The sex is just the icing on the cake. It's everything else that goes along with the sex that I and so many other people crave.
