"I've always has a MFM fantasy."
Well, the only problem there is that blackfoot would probably spend the whole time kicking my a$$ if we ever got in the same room.

(From the other post) Possessivness implies an EC
So true. Most people know intuitively that jealousy can be a real killer if there is too much of it. But I'll bet most people don't think that too little of it can be bad. I know I'm not supposed to be thinking of OW too much, but it does make a good point. I was shocked one time when she started acting all jealous after she saw me talking and carrying on with another woman in the group. Later, she starting talking and carrying on with another guy in the group, and looked pleased with herself when I started joking around about kicking his butt. Do women like the idea of men fighting over them? I guess it makes you feel desired/wanted. You know, the W has never expressed jealousy toward me and I probably have never expressed it to her. Is it possible we were too comfortable and felt too safe with each other. Safe is a good thing in general, but it doesn't always inspire passion. Of course OW also went on and on sometimes about how one of the things she really liked about me was that she felt safe with me because she knew I wouldn't try to cross THE boundary. Ack, just when I think I've figured something out, there is always a kicker.


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack