"You can't get your W to do anything she does not choose to do herself." I've got to remember that and not blame myself if she chooses not to change.
"That's why it is so true that you have to love and care for YOURSELF before you can TRULY love and care for someone else." I'm understanding that better and better every day. Although it wasn't the best way to do it, the EA I think was the first thing in my life to make me start to care about myself. It should have been my marriage, but for whatever reason, it didn't happen. Now I want it to happen, but it will be a lot of work.
Thanks for the motivational speech there at the end. I gotta keep focused on the fact that no matter how much my wife MAY want me to go back to old Glob because it is safer for her, it really was bad for our marriage. New Glob still has a lot of work to do to make himself better, but the potential for a great marriage is there now. I'm starting to talk in 3rd person now.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
