I’ve been there on this one. I go along with wife’s suggestions since I have no hard preference at the moment, but also because I want to be accommodating to her. In this way I feel like I am thinking in a “team” fashion. So I am fine with her taking the lead. But when she goes with her idea, and then keeps truckin’ on down the road without stopping to ask what I think, I come to realize she is not thinking in a “team” fashion at all, but only in a selfish fashion. So I get mad at her inconsideration. I may not have a problem with what she is doing. I am just hurt that I thought of her but don’t feel that she is thinking of me.
