"This double standard is very frustrating to me and is part of the reason (I think) that men find it hard to honestly validate women. We don’t always trust that they know what they are saying. The best I can say is that I completely believe that women believe what they are saying. KWIM?" I think you summed up a lot of my dilemma. How can I honestly proceed with a plan to improve the M if I am constantly second-guessing whether something we agreed upon yesterday is still agreed upon today, or that an argument a couple of hours ago, is really not an issue now. Am I thinking too logically here?
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"