There is more! Update, happened last night!

[Burgbud]

Guess no one really knows what to say to me huh?

Hi Peg! I know it's hard when your emotions are churning and you've gone through it all again in order to type it out. But it takes people awhile to digest a long post and then formulate a good response. No matter how things work out for you, you're going to get a lesson in patience from all this, so consider waiting for interactions on this board to be your first little example of that.

I'll say this much before thinking on it some more...if he's truly ready to recommit himself to your marriage there's no reason it can't be saved, and possibly even improved, if you're able to forgive and move forward, as long as both of you are willing to put in lots of work.

Oh, and let me add that you're still going to be better served by keeping all your posts in one thread. It starts getting to be work if people have to flip around among different threads to keep track of your sitch.