This will take some time to develop and alot of patience on my behalf as words do not come easy to H. I am DBing my butt of I can tell you but I am also trying hard to not sacrifice who I am in the process.
Ah Kim! You are doing great and this little tidbit here tells me so! Last time H and I tried to reconcile I didn't do this. And I sacrificed myself in the process. So keep this up! Go slowly and gently. Things won't change overnight. But they can change.
I think you need to join Kismet and I as Wonder Women. The cape is in the mail!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr