H is too confusing for words

[Burgbud]

Hey Kim! It's great to read your post; you sound so centered and healthy.

Now what did you mean about being BOLD not sure if that is good or bad. ... You see I look at BOLD as being rather loud and arrogant, which whilst I can be loud at times, I wouldn't say I was arrogant or I hope not as I don't respond well to arrogant people myself.

ACK! I see you being bold in a good way, definitely! Like when WCB asked what you'd be for Halloween if you had no inhibitions and you said you'd be a nun cuz no one knows what's beneath those robes. That's great! And to me, that's bold. Like the plan you and your mum came up with to have her take the kids for awhile so you and H could try to work on things. You don't wait for life to happen, you make things happen. So that's a good way to be bold. I just put that out there because I don't think you'll be well-served to be walking on eggshells around H, or being overly anxious about whether things will work out now that he's trying. That's just not you.

And I doubt anybody sees you as arrogant. Sometimes I think you run yourself down a little bit. But not so much that it's worrisome. Just make sure you let us see that even though you know you're not perfect, you know you're still awfully good. That's not arrogance, that's just what you deserve.

Hope your long weekend went great! Please spill as many details as you have time for!