Beth - Thankyou and when he told me about conversation with OW, I did say to him that it meant alot to me that he had been honest with her and I know it may have been hard to say. He said No it was O.K. and she needed to know. I said well I just want you to know that I think it was a good thing for her as well as it would help her move on and know where his head was at and that It helped me to see he was being serious about us. So I do validate and encourage when I can. Thanks though Beth I am sure there will be times when I forget and words like that are a wonderful reminder to keep me on track so keep saying them.....KDU
