You are doing great! Keeping it slow, not having unrealistic expectations. This will be a slow process and there will be bumps, so be prepared. Keep watching for actions. And make sure to let him know that you appreciate it when his actions are what you need. I think the WAS need to feel a little rewarded for their actions. It's weird but I think it helps them keep going forward when the bumps occur. Your doing great Kim!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
