Beth don't ever think you dont help you all always help. Even if I don't agree with people sometimes it still makes me sit back and go over it again to see if I have missed something. As for what you have said, yes I agree the OW has to go and she has but I think it is now the grieving side of things more so on her behalf. When she leaves him alone it will be better.
If I see something I don't want to see that is fine I will deal with it but I would rather know than to live in a dream world.
Yoyo you are not crazy at all so be rid of that thought.
BB, thanks buddy I am glad you understand my need to do what I did. No I do not intend to make it habit and if I got caught well I guess I will deal with that, but at the same time it would just look like I have turned up for a coffee or whatever. I will not be doing it alot I can guarantee that.....
H just called in for coffee at my work and has said he is still coming for tea but that he might have to stay the night as his alternator is playing up and the lights at night drain too much power. He has now gone to see if he can get an alternator so I don't know if he will stay or not, which is fine with me either way.
