Life lesson - NEVER do anything that will make an OW happy! )
Yes...Yes...I wholly agree!!!!! If you've read my recent posts...this goal of NOT making OW happy is really fun!!! Again, no.. I am not mad nor crazy.
I can tell you all about it but I wouldn't tell H anywhere near what I am going to tell all of you.
I think this is mutual amongst us. I have said alot in my journals. But I wouldn't ever tell H that I feel invigorated that OW is not going to get the cake. LOL In a way, you are also doing an OSCAR. LOL This BB is a good way of expressing our views and thoughts, huh?
That is the first time I have checked up on him but I don't know if it will be the last.
Sorry to say this, but I don't think it will be the last. The trust needs to be slowly earned. And I think it's too soon for you to fully-be immersed in wanting to trust him. But could I suggest (my 2 crazy cents) that you continue to do an OSCAR of acting that you trust him. Give him at least a month or so of walking the walk, before starting to "invest" any trust. In that way, you are sort of protected on your side, and H have the "impression" that life is going on well...
I feel guilty for doing this, maybe b/c it is not in my nature normally......
Don't feel guilty. You are the WIFE. You are supposed to "KNOW" the well-being of your H...to put it nicely.
One Day at A TIME!!!! It's a bright sunny future!!!