OMG KDU!
What H said must have sounded like music. And you've worked so hard and been so patient. You are very very close. I'm sending good thoughts and hoping your H finds the courage to end the a and commit to the process of reconciling.
I can't wait to hear more. You are wise to warn caution, knowing these things often take unexpected turns. But I think you've earned a turn the right direction finally, and I bet the moment you've worked for is arriving.
Blessings. Have a good day while we sleep and I can't wait to see your next post.