KDU,
It sounds like you are doing such a great job DBing. I have followed your story (stitch?) for a couple of months now and am filled with the utmost admiration for you. You come across as a very strong, composed and independent person and you are going to be terrific with or without your husband. I bet he's thinking of all of this right now and worried about what he has messed up so badly. Here's hoping he gets it right this time. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my posts and for sharing your stitch with all of us.

Melissa