Wow...KDU ...your H is really indeed too confusing for words, huh? I have learned quite a lot from your sitch too. Think your sitch is an advance version of mine? You are at your 9 month stage, whereas mine is 6 1/2 months... Gosh, time indeed flies. I agree with you (as per your post on my thread) that I should not sound soooo eager to run to H when he beckons and calls. You do sound sooo much stronger, Kim. I hope what you have told your H has really indeed open his eyes and realise what he's missing. I think the info about OW going to commit suicide is somewhat like a threat? If you H goes back to OW because of that threat, their R will surely fail too ...eventually. No R can survive such threats. He would be miserable, she would be miserable. Oh well...as we all know, we cannot control them.... It's a decision that your H has to make on his own. I will wish you good luck...and will check up on you!!!
