(((((Kim))))) ~ I am so sorry. Just wanted to repeat all of the wise words of wisdom from everyone else. You have done nothing wrong. It is all about him, and the only pressure is coming from the alien thoughts that are buzzing around in his brain.
I know you feel like you are back to square one. I think this is pretty much typical with mlcers. They reach out, they get scared, they withdraw. Meanwhile, we are expected to wait and DB our hearts out.
Take care of yourself and your kids. Do what you have to do to get through. Allow yourself sometime to just be mad,sad, whatever. Let it all out honey. We are all here to listen ((((Kim))))
