Oh, I forgot to ask the really big question. To ML or not? Separated 5 months - ML 4 times. Feels great during, but afterwards, so awkward. No touching, hugging, and barely kisses. Once, I caught him calling OW 4 hours after we ML. Whats that all about? H still talks sexual to me. I do try to seduce him, flirt like hell. Is this counter DBing. KDU - I think I want to ML as much as he does. Believe me, he's refused and rejected me on occassion. Feels horrible, but I keep coming for more. Is this a NO NO?
