KDU -
What a inspirational person you are. Reading your post brings so much hope to me. I know I'm new to this and decided to stop being the victim in all this.

H came for dinner, and I ACT AS IF. Happy, Happy, Happy. (Feels like Denial, Denial, Denial)

He always initiates R talk. Say's I'm acting Non-Commital.
WTF!
Maybe he's noticing me pulling back, no more pressure. Is this a positive step?