Anna - Yes when I thought about this after he left I must admit it bought a smile to my face. H says he wants to take it slow but is happy to quickly jump into bed (lol), shows they are very confused doesn't it. Although I take it as a warning to be careful.....
BB - Yes I must agree with you, your vibes about dating sent across the oceans must have hit my H right between the eyes for this drama to have done the turnaround that it has so I will give you full credit for this BB. You are right though he has talked the talk which is all well and good but the real test is will he walk the walk (sigh) time will tell I suppose....
Kismet - You say I seem to have it together - that I am not so sure of. I am trying to DB my heart out now but have learnt not to expect much this time as they have a habit of reeling us back in and then backing away again so I am very very cautious and I am sure I will be lucky if I have a tongue in the next few days as I will be biting on it that hard.
WCBeth - Thankyou for your thoughts as you are one of my DB Hero's but I will do my best to heed your advice and watch his actions before I do anything..
Wannabe - I will be treading carefully so I hope that he is drawn in by that and not away but hey I can't control him just me and as I have said before I must be very careful as he could turn away just as quick as he has headed my way.
Anyway guys fingers crossed and I am counting on all of you to keep me on the DB track and not to blow this and the risk I must take is to still be slightly detached and if he really wants this he will work at it a bit. I am not after him to completely chase me down with undying love (although how nice would that be) but just to walk the walk as BB says so we will see. I think this is the only way I can cope if this all goes belly up which unfortunately I half expect due the longevity of this sitch, 9 months is a long time and I don't know if those aliens have returned all of his brain yet, so we will see...Thanks guys....KDU
