Quote: XW mentioned that she' undergoing tests for cancer and would keep me informed if anything shows up.
I don't want to make light of this, but for what it's worth, prior to the bomb, my W spent about 2-3 years fearing cancer and went through tests for stomach, eye, brain, colon, breast, and vaginal cancer. I guess this was her cry for help, but it just pushed me further away because after I while, I ended up treating her like a neurotic nut. Even if I was right , all I did was make her vulnerable to the first OM to pursue and validate her. So anyway, while I might be concerned, I also might see this as part of her total mental makeup at this time and an opportunity for you to continue showing the good man that you are--without any expectations.
, all I did was make her vulnerable to the first OM to pursue and validate her. So anyway, while I might be concerned, I also might see this as part of her total mental makeup at this time and an opportunity for you to continue showing the good man that you are--without any expectations.
