Gabe,
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I also noticed that XW left a sizable box of her momentos, some from the M, some predating me.

This is curious. STBXW left a lot of things, and tossed a lot of things, that I would have figured she'd keep. The stuff that predated me was stuff that wasn't "tainted" by my influence, right?

I feel this is a sign that what's going on right now is not about you or me, but all their own stuff. Rejecting wedding photos (in my case) is one thing, but rejecting pre-M stuff, even childhood stuff, is different.

Thanks,

K

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