Hi Gabe,

I am sitting here unpacking more today. Are you finished unpacking and decorating yet? How are things looking? Don't you enjoy being back in your home!

I know what you mean about knowing that the other side doesn't see you as the bad guy. I am glad to see that FF is trusting you with info. Wife will notice FF asking for your advice. That is a good thing.

Glad to hear you went out last night. Interesting about your friend and how he had you drive by his ex's when he was a WAH. Did you ask him for any advice?

It is funny you mentioned talking to your priest. Sounds like he gave you a good plan. I read something on a christian website about what the spouse of a MLCer should do. It said to be a source of strength and consistency for MLC to go back to when they hit rock bottom. It just isn't fair though. People really stink a lot of the times. Why do they have to be soooo human!

When you mentioned your priest, it made me laugh. I remember going to the priest of the church at the beginning of my divorce. He was probably 40 and wore a leather jacket. I was telling him about our addiction problems, and I said, "Boy, drugs are so evil." He said well drugs aren't necessarily evil it is the way people can begin to use them that is sinful. He then said I had some fun with peyote in my day, and he got this gleam in his eye. I was shocked!!! Kind of funny I guess.

Glad you got caught up on some sleep.